Law can neither be ignored nor put aside. Perhaps, the
most important of these laws is the 'law of love.'
simply, "Love is Law, Law is Love." This amounts to
the same thing as "the gift of giving" without the
"hope of reward or pay,"
how the Law of Love works in business, go
is this thing called
Every religion teaches the Law of Love.
you putting The
Law of Love to
work for you?
others with that which pains yourself.
others as you would like them to treat you; that is
the Law and the Prophets.
Bible, Matthew 7:12.
Do not unto
others what you would not they should do unto you.
This is the
sum of duty: Do nothing to others which if done to
you, would cause you pain.
No one of
you is a believer until he loves for his brother what
he loves for himself. Traditions.
and suffering, in joy and grief, we should regard all
creatures as we regard our own self, and should
therefore refrain from inflicting upon others such
injury as would appear undesirable to us if inflicted
upon ourselves. Yogashastra
hurtful to yourself do not to your fellow man. That is
the whole of the Torah and the remainder is but
commentary. Go learn it. Talmud.
As you deem
yourself so deem others. Then you will become a
partner in partner to heaven.
neighbor's loss as your own loss.
kan ying p'ien.
self-help books click on: be
conscious of your default
should I do with my
to know you and
meaning of life.
Take a love
"I'll be happy
when...." is the way many people think they are living
their lives. Yet, happiness is not something that
happens to you. Happiness is inside you now. You are
motivated from within. You only have to allow
happiness to surface.
= K (knowing
who you are)
X D (discovering
your life's work)
X L (learning
not to tolerate what's not
That's the formula
for happiness--know yourself, your true calling and
that you get what you tolerate.
Happiness is being
aware not only of the positive events that occur in
your life but also that you yourself are the cause of
these events--that you can create them, that you
control their occurrence, and that you play a major
role in the good things that happen to you. Happiness,
said Benjamin Franklin, "is produced not so much by
great pieces of good fortune that seldom happen as by
the little advantages that occur every
somewhere off in the future, but in living in the
"now" and loving every moment of our daily
experiences. We have an opportunity to form an
impression in every business or personal interaction.
Yet, in the business world, we don't speak much about
the heart. But our purpose in doing our life's work
should come from the heart---since all businesses are
ultimately people serving people. We all need
connection, belonging and meaningful contribution.
There is a paradox
of happiness, stated by Viktor E. Frankl in
Will of Meaning,
"To the extent to which one makes happiness the
objective of his motivation, he necessarily makes it
the object of his attention. But precisely by so doing
he loses sight of the reason for happiness, and
happiness itself must fade away. Success and happiness
must happen, the less one cares for them, the more
who succeed in revealing themselves to
the dimness receding from their own visions of self.
Like people awakening from a dream, they slough off
the accumulated, ill-fitting trappings of unsuitable
lives. Then the mutual fund manager may become a
sculptor, or visa versa; some friendships lapse into
dilapidated irrelevance as new ones deepen; the city
dweller moves to the country, where he feels finally
at home. As the emotional brain clarity emerges, life
General Theory of Love
Thomas Lewis M.D., Fari Amini, M.D., Richard Lannon,
embraced it all,
magical little puff,
brighten it all
slowly watched the sun,
beneath the hilltops,
new day has just begun,
the grass with dew drops
little do you recognize,
story on your face,
a freckle full of lies,
smile youve misplaced
though Im shy,
tears I shall cry,
you could replace.
walked this lonely road,
left me confused for quite awhile,
light at the end of the tunnel showed,
kept me tied together with your forgiving
The Virtual Dating Game
many people think of dating services as just that--an
easy way to find a date online dating has established
itself as a legitimate relationship maker.
Increasingly, singles are using the Internet to seek
out that special someone for the long-term. For those
who shun singles bars and the dating scene, meeting
someone virtually can forgo much of the uncomfortable
aspects of dating.
According to a survey conducted at the 8-million
member Match.com, a half-million new members register
Jason Williams in Psychology Today, February
is your life today and where do you want to
you ever watched, listened, and felt someone tuning a
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able to appreciate the journey, including the valleys,
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